今天有很尊敬的人严厉的指出我的不足

亦有亲密的人不吝言辞的夸奖鼓励我

亦有小朋友突然严肃的对我说：她对我的评价是十分正直，并且正直实在已经难能可贵，并且说她其实在等我还能多少时间不变

在又一个生辰的前一天听到如此这般，很有意义，我也好好想想

应最近开始立志（！）要经常自己煮饭的某位同学的要求~~

给大家推荐几个煮张美味人生的部落格吧:-)

梅子的写食日记 http://plum.blog.sohu.com/ 因为天天拜访她的blog感觉像认识的老朋友似的 

Nordljus http://www.nordljus.co.uk/ 和一个男人一只猫住在一起的Keiko的世界，她的照片和部落格 几乎可以告诉你所有关于食品的纯净、美好、细腻和野趣呢

Foodbeam http://www.foodbeam.com/大家相信我哦，是晃过的地方里，西餐和甜品的recipes最仔细的！

文怡的美食厨房 http://blog.sina.com.cn/wenyi 喜欢中餐的呢还是来这里好了，不过需要一定基础，因为有时候这位姐姐只给大略的recipes

其实，最近也正好从关于饮食的调研里挺多感慨呢，好多人都感慨太忙太累，怎么会有空进厨房呢？本来以为是我们这一代人的困扰，这一次看到其实对三四十岁的的人也是普遍的呢，哪怕是有孩子的家庭，也好多是外食和去父母家里蹭饭，大家都挺无奈的。

所以又一次特别觉得这些博主们好热爱生活，字里行间，照片里面，都是满满的幸福和认真呐。

哎呀，其实煮煮饭挺好的，很忙很累（很烦？）的时候，好比画画画儿 弹弹琴 跳跳舞 拼拼图 跑跑步打电玩，也可以带来美丽的心情

所以整个好好的厨房，攒点小钱买好好的设备，开始吧！！

支持你！~！~！~

倒是菜场们要是适应我们上班族晚上开到很晚就好了（22点？）

哈哈

After listened to her story, I doubt,

that my world is too black and white as well...

very small gray area in between...

Always automatically, try to give a definition clearly -

love something, or not;

like somebody, or not;

into a hobby, or not...

I used to hate Mozart for long, but then suddenly fell in love with his music...There is just no time in between. No such a period of changing.

Sometimes I feel,

that I want something so much, 

like a kid wants his bonbon,

that I just need it too complete my life...

but if I tried and waited and still didn’t get it, I might suddenly just loose the passion. And if I loose the passion, then I just loose it. The same passion hardly comes back to me again.

I guess this is why when I meet some other "black-and-white" people (thinking of many of my friends around) ...just so easy, for us, to get close to each other from the very beginning...

It's kind of a strong feeling,

that we are from the same corner of the earth,

or living in a same world,

or we speak a same language...

's also possibly why I sometimes get quite confused dealing with "gray" people, especially when I do like them and care abt what they think (also thinking of some of my dear buddies, ne?).

For in their gray world, every thing probably happens so peacefully and smoothly.

Hmmmmm, for many times,

I feel if I am not as important to them as they are to me.

'Cause it's like when you feel burning,

they've just started to warm up;

when you need a real hug,

they give a smile;

but when you feel enough and are right about to leave,

they'll look so confused: "Why? Isn't the game just starting?"

Anyhow, I don't think it is a good part of my personality, though.

And it does hurt sometims.

But when chatting about this with M.F., (half despairingly), this guy laughed and said, it's actually quite charming (!), Q (!!), and youngish (!!!)...

Well,

I'll take your last word this time then.